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Mademoiselle; nour. - nour - 09-11-2009 05:21 AM
Reading this post again makes me want to laugh!
Re: Mademoiselle; nour. - Ana - 09-11-2009 05:57 AM
Sorry to say nour, but no one can really help you with this stuff. All we can really offer is our own views, personal experiences and advice.
The best thing I can say, is probably not what you want to hear but something that might help. That guy you claim to love now, probably won't even cross your mind a few years down the road. I understand that you have strong feelings for him right now and that they're causing you some upset, but it goes away. I think the majority of adults can look back on their teenage years and remember at least one person that they were 'madly in love with' yet haven't seen since that time. Then again, I'm sure there's quite a few adults that have married their teenage love.
Basically, what I'm saying, is that if he doesn't become your boyfriend or if he does and things go wrong, you'll get over him. Might take a bit of time, but you will.
Re: Mademoiselle; nour. - nour - 09-11-2009 06:06 AM
Thanks Cowie, you're so right.
It's a just a teenage phase and I know that, but I just can't seem to get over it at the moment and it hurts when I know already that I can't have him because of some mistake I made, which was dating his best friend. ugh I hate that :shock:
Re: Mademoiselle; nour. - nour - 09-11-2009 06:39 AM
Okay so tomorrow I'm going to a friend's place to study chemistry smad
Oh yea I'm done with the math
Re: Mademoiselle; nour. - Ana - 09-11-2009 06:43 AM
nour Wrote:Thanks Cowie, you're so right.
You will get over it though nour. shappy Just give it some time.
Re: Mademoiselle; nour. - nour - 09-11-2009 06:47 AM
Thanks Ana, I really appreciate it
Hopefully I will, sometime soon!
But I'd be very glad and satisfied if I only had the chance to go out with him just us, and date, then break up having a closure. I would understand then that I have to get over it, but now there's no valid reason for me to forget about him! I know it's just a phase and it'll pass but it's irritating for the moment :roll:
Re: Mademoiselle; nour. - nour - 09-11-2009 05:47 PM
So I woke up at 10:00 a.m. And I'm getting ready to go to my friend's place! :mrgreen:
(Or maybe I should wait for her to call me!)
Re: Mademoiselle; nour. - Harold-L - 09-11-2009 05:50 PM
You look forward to...studying? :shock:
and it's 10 am there now?
Re: Mademoiselle; nour. - nour - 09-11-2009 06:04 PM
Now it's 11:02 a.m. :mrgreen:
No I'm not looking forward to studying! but going out! And I have to study chemistry sooner or later so...!
I used to be best friends with the girl, but we stopped talking for some reason and now we're kind of getting back in touch! that's why I'm sort of excited! LOL :laugh:
Re: Mademoiselle; nour. - Harold-L - 09-11-2009 06:10 PM
Quote:Now it's 11:02 a.m. :mrgreen:Oh...one hour ahead of me! shappy
Quote:No I'm not looking forward to studying! but going out! And I have to study chemistry sooner or later so...!Hey that's great
And I guess it is a nicer way to study :laugh:
Re: Mademoiselle; nour. - nour - 09-12-2009 06:13 AM
Harold-L Wrote:Hey that's great
I know isn't it?
Well I just got back home, and we really got along very well today!
We're back being good friends! Finally!
Re: Mademoiselle; nour. - Harold-L - 09-12-2009 07:58 AM
Whoa 12 hours! I hope you didn't spend the whole day studying! :laugh:
That's great that you're friends again though scool
Re: Mademoiselle; nour. - nour - 09-12-2009 09:35 PM
We only studied for like 30mins and spent the rest making fun of people!
And we had a birthday at night, so we went and it was really fun!
Re: Mademoiselle; nour. - Harold-L - 09-12-2009 11:14 PM
30 minutes? :laugh: :laugh:
Oh well...who wants to waste time on homework when you can go to a birthday party :twisted:
Re: Mademoiselle; nour. - nour - 09-14-2009 06:35 AM
You said it!
My exam is on Tuesday, yes yes in 2 days :shock:
I fifnished the chemistry today, I still have physics, and 1 day :O
I can't finish everything tomorrow scry