Hi All
I need to see a periodontist for what has been described as fairly urgent and invasive oral surgery. I have morbid emetophobia and a general fear of loss of physical control etc which makes this unimaginable. I cannot at this point, even contemplate being able to go through with several visits at approx 70 minutes a time plus regular maintenance there after.

Incidentally, I also have a very small mouth and cannot open it up very far i.e, it is difficult for even me to get to the back of my own teeth when flossing. Hence how the problems probably started, I would guess.

As someone who also suffers anxiety, panic attacks and social phobia, this alone has motivated me to return to taking Zoloft daily in conjunction with diazepam when necessary. It’s been almost 5 years since I have resorted to medication, believing that I could deal with it myself though a healthy lifestyle. Nope, I have had to make the concession now that I can’t do it alone.

I had hoped that this procedure could be done in “day procedure” surgery, all at once under twilight sedation however the periodontist seems to think that this is not an option, due to the amount of times I will need to return for more treatment.

I know that I must go through with this or eventually loose my teeth! Has anybody out there been in a similar situation? And if so, is there anything extra I can be doing to help myself?

Shanny

Hi, and welcome to oFear Shanny!

I can identify with you in terms of your social phobia - it's something which I've had for years now.

In terms of your actual situation, have you fully explained it to your family/ the medical professionals involved (so that they can appreciate the sheer impact it will have on you)?

Is there definintely no chance of any compromises that can be make in the treatment?

Thanks for the welcome
Yes, I am fully explained it to my doctor, who has prescribed the above medication and also referred me to a psychologist. Initially, the counseling will be with the sole purpose of making it through the dental surgery.
I can't put my finger on it but I'd say that this is more a fear of losing control than anything else. I don't fear there being any pain as I know that I will be medicated for that.
I must say that it really didn't help that my periodontist was clearly uncomfortable with my anxiety. That never helps. Perhaps I may look for someone with a little more experience in dealing with nervous patients.

Well its vital that you can fully trust the staff that you are working with, so if you arent comfy the Perodontist, certainly look for one with more experience.