scared o everything wrote:
This is another big fear of mine, its bad because i cant let water go over my chest

if i do i panick, i cant swim so i avoid deep water. I have tryed alot of thing to fix it like going a little deeper and a little deeper but always when it gets to my chest i panick. Even in the bath tub i have to be careful how the water goes over my head when i wash my hair if it feels like i cant breath i panick. I was thinking maybe if i took swimming lessons i wouldnt be as scared but i dont know........maybe i would just embarasse myself by panicking

what do you guys think??
Tanya
Honestly, I'm not a big fan of facing your fears. I think for some people it works and for some it causes more mental trauma.
So, my suggestion is to talk to a doctor. I also stated this in another of your posts, but I think it's the best option. Then you can ask them if you should try swimming lessons.
They can help you through things like this. Sometimes all they do is listen, but it's good to get these things out and hear that someone understands.
Be careful though, if you panic in the water. Do you have panic attacks or do you just 'panic'? I'd make sure there's someone in the water with you, as you may panic and go under.